She has a purity ring and i can't help myself!?

simple think while ur doing it, is it right to do? the best thing a girl admires if u say u respect her decision and stick to it, instead of tryin to take off her shirt, why dont u turn it into a cuddly hug or wrap ur arm around her hips? even talk to her about it if it bothers u so much but say u wont do anything until she is ready